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erratioWhat is it about guys that makes us girls go funny?
Its been however many years since the feminist revolution that taught us that its safe to be ourselves, that we don't have to measure ourselves by how many guys look at our legs/bust/ass, that we can be proud just to be ourselves and to live our own independent lives.
This would all be fine and good except that the majority of us born in this time of freedom and equality don't particularly want to be liberated. Oh sure, we are happy to take the legacy the feminists left us and go forge our own careers and be money-earners in our own rights. But at the end of it, we still want guys to look at us covetously and to find us physically attractive. Why must we feel this way? I still haven't found any satisfactory answer as to why i can have a dozen friends who have proven in countless ways how much they care for me, yet if i don't feel like my bf is pining after me i feel like i have somehow failed. And i have seen it in other people's relationships around me too, even in an otherwise happy stable relationship, if the girl doesn't feel like she is physically wanted she will not be completely happy.
Damn these female hormones of ours is all i can say. Damn them to hell
Its been however many years since the feminist revolution that taught us that its safe to be ourselves, that we don't have to measure ourselves by how many guys look at our legs/bust/ass, that we can be proud just to be ourselves and to live our own independent lives.
This would all be fine and good except that the majority of us born in this time of freedom and equality don't particularly want to be liberated. Oh sure, we are happy to take the legacy the feminists left us and go forge our own careers and be money-earners in our own rights. But at the end of it, we still want guys to look at us covetously and to find us physically attractive. Why must we feel this way? I still haven't found any satisfactory answer as to why i can have a dozen friends who have proven in countless ways how much they care for me, yet if i don't feel like my bf is pining after me i feel like i have somehow failed. And i have seen it in other people's relationships around me too, even in an otherwise happy stable relationship, if the girl doesn't feel like she is physically wanted she will not be completely happy.
Damn these female hormones of ours is all i can say. Damn them to hell
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Date: 2005-08-21 02:26 am (UTC)And they never get physical/emotional responses they can't control... :p
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Date: 2005-08-21 02:32 am (UTC)the view from up here on my manly pedestal is so majestic
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Date: 2005-08-21 02:49 am (UTC)*giggles*
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Date: 2005-08-21 03:01 am (UTC)NO, YOU WANT TO DESTROY
DESTROYYYYYYY
*climbs back up to position of ultimate condescension*
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Date: 2005-08-21 03:04 am (UTC)wow things make sense now
men don't get enough oxygen to their brain
BAHAHAHAHAHA
*skips away giggling*
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Date: 2005-08-21 03:23 am (UTC)PERHAPS ALL MEN ARE SHALLOW TOO??
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Date: 2005-08-21 03:39 am (UTC)Now if you were swimming in your pool of 'pride' while basking in your 'glory', then maybe...
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Date: 2005-08-21 03:42 am (UTC)*********** CUT HERE ***********